In a world where every man runs helter-skelter for selfish gains, control your level of trust even in your religious circus which is where trust is embedded and most times betrayed.
- Gbemi Orims.
Sunday, October 9, 2011
Quotes
A good percentage of mature and successful men have two kinds of women in their lives: the wife and the whore. The wife may remain constant but the whore varies. They gain pleasant time and pleasurable memories from the whore but the wife remains the pain bearing and frustrated possessive being.
-Gbemi Orims.
-Gbemi Orims.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Virtues versus Dreams
All you need is determination to achieve your dreams.
Calm down, you will surely get to where you are going if you are well determined.
Never trade your virtues for your dreams. They are more important than your dreams. Never let your dreams steal your virtues from you, because your virtues buy you intergrity always.
In case you have not defined what virtues are to you; suspend everything you are doing now and define virtue.
A good name is better than gold and precious than diamonds. Suna yafi kudi...
Gbemi Orims.
Calm down, you will surely get to where you are going if you are well determined.
Never trade your virtues for your dreams. They are more important than your dreams. Never let your dreams steal your virtues from you, because your virtues buy you intergrity always.
In case you have not defined what virtues are to you; suspend everything you are doing now and define virtue.
A good name is better than gold and precious than diamonds. Suna yafi kudi...
Gbemi Orims.
Friday, April 29, 2011
Literature
Literature is the representation of life in words with truth and beauty.
Literature is characterized by its artistic, suggestive and permanent nature.
Literature is very important because of its preservative flavor.
Behind a book, there is a man, behind the man, there is a race, behind the race, there is an environment. Literature marries all these together.
History is good but literature is better. History tells of the deeds while Literature says the dream behind the deeds. This means that Literature makes History meaningful.
Literature could have its essence in giving pleasure or for analytical purposes. Literature is great!
Literature is characterized by its artistic, suggestive and permanent nature.
Literature is very important because of its preservative flavor.
Behind a book, there is a man, behind the man, there is a race, behind the race, there is an environment. Literature marries all these together.
History is good but literature is better. History tells of the deeds while Literature says the dream behind the deeds. This means that Literature makes History meaningful.
Literature could have its essence in giving pleasure or for analytical purposes. Literature is great!
Monday, April 25, 2011
Personal Hygiene
Cleanliness is next to godliness. For both male and female, personal hygiene is very important. Especially for people in love relationships, when you share your body with someone else, endeavor to keep clean always.
Keeping clean takes a conscious effort from individuals. A lazy man or woman cannot be clean. Cleanliness requires hardwork. It is good for both men and women to change their clothes and under-wears daily because they would have sweat on it by the time they wear it once. Everyone feels good when they put on a clean and well ironed cloth. It makes you feel good and smell nice.
For a lady, you don't need to have all the money in the world to be clean. If you can afford to buy 7pants and 7bras, then you can wear a bra and pant per day. Also, if you have few cloths to change you can wear your cloth just once and wash.
The bedroom should be well kept. Your room should look appealing at all times. The entire house must be clean. The bedroom will be attractive with well laid bed spreads, clean floor,and tidy surroundings.
Do not keep too much properties. If you live in a small apartment, just get the necessary things for survival and maintain a spacious, airy and clean environment. Empty the waste baskets daily, ensure the sink is free of plates at all times, and sweep after every activity in the kitchen. Ensure you change your plates, cutlery and cups regularly, this will make eating exciting, and your family members will always expect new things from you, thereby, making your home interesting.
The toilet and bathroom should be kept clean as well. Use air-freshener in the rooms to ensure the air is not stale at any time. Everybody feels good when they are in a neat environment.
Sex keeps a marital relationship. Cleanliness will enhance your sexual life. Good body fragrance aids sexual excitement. Well laid bed spread makes the bed appealing and the body relaxed for sexual activity. Your under garment should be appealing and neat. It is common among ladies to wash their face at every opportunity they have, but they care less about washing their private part which is equally important.
Equally important is a woman's attitude. A positive attitude will go a long way in helping a woman keep relationships. In keeping a man for long, a good attitude will help you. Even if you are not so hot in giving sex, a positive attitude will help you get better, and it will make your man find a helpmate, soul-mate, mind-mate and play-mate in you. A positive attitude makes you know the love language of your man. If a woman seeks to know what she can offer a man to make him better, why bother over the fear of disappointments?
Cheers!
Keeping clean takes a conscious effort from individuals. A lazy man or woman cannot be clean. Cleanliness requires hardwork. It is good for both men and women to change their clothes and under-wears daily because they would have sweat on it by the time they wear it once. Everyone feels good when they put on a clean and well ironed cloth. It makes you feel good and smell nice.
For a lady, you don't need to have all the money in the world to be clean. If you can afford to buy 7pants and 7bras, then you can wear a bra and pant per day. Also, if you have few cloths to change you can wear your cloth just once and wash.
The bedroom should be well kept. Your room should look appealing at all times. The entire house must be clean. The bedroom will be attractive with well laid bed spreads, clean floor,and tidy surroundings.
Do not keep too much properties. If you live in a small apartment, just get the necessary things for survival and maintain a spacious, airy and clean environment. Empty the waste baskets daily, ensure the sink is free of plates at all times, and sweep after every activity in the kitchen. Ensure you change your plates, cutlery and cups regularly, this will make eating exciting, and your family members will always expect new things from you, thereby, making your home interesting.
The toilet and bathroom should be kept clean as well. Use air-freshener in the rooms to ensure the air is not stale at any time. Everybody feels good when they are in a neat environment.
Sex keeps a marital relationship. Cleanliness will enhance your sexual life. Good body fragrance aids sexual excitement. Well laid bed spread makes the bed appealing and the body relaxed for sexual activity. Your under garment should be appealing and neat. It is common among ladies to wash their face at every opportunity they have, but they care less about washing their private part which is equally important.
Equally important is a woman's attitude. A positive attitude will go a long way in helping a woman keep relationships. In keeping a man for long, a good attitude will help you. Even if you are not so hot in giving sex, a positive attitude will help you get better, and it will make your man find a helpmate, soul-mate, mind-mate and play-mate in you. A positive attitude makes you know the love language of your man. If a woman seeks to know what she can offer a man to make him better, why bother over the fear of disappointments?
Cheers!
Friday, November 19, 2010
There is Wisdom in the Sand Pile of the Kindergarten Days
There is Wisdom in the Sand Pile of the Kindergarten Days.
The kindergarten is a children’s place which serves as a transition from home to the commencement of formal education. Depending on the local custom, children attend kindergarten between the ages of 2 and 7 which are the formative years.
Life time virtues are taught in the kindergarten in a playful way to children whose hearts are open to acquiring knowledge. There is wisdom in the sand pile at the kindergarten. Indeed, all we really need to know in life about how to live, and what to do are the key lessons of the kindergarten.
I remember my kindergarten days, we were taught to share with one another, play fair, not to take what is not ours, to say sorry when we hurt others, do one thing at a time, wash our hands before and after eating, take a nap every afternoon amongst other things.
More so, the kindergarten is the period where a child is in his or her natural state, that is, very innocent; the child care less about what people think about him or her. Instead, a child is inquisitive and pays attention to details. There is no burden, no cause for alarm, no undue haste, no holding of grudges. The heart of a child is open to friendship, he or she cries immediately when hurt to let out emotions and when petted, he or she forgives and forgets. One will always see that innocent smile on a child. This is the salient period for every child; the best time for picking good habits and learning participation.
Every child needs a good coach at this period of their life. The coach could be a neighbour, uncle, aunt, brother, sister, father, mother, or a teacher. The coach should have a strong value system and the interest of the child at heart. A coach is meant to guide the child through life. He or she is meant to be there for the child at all times. The words of a coach should always linger in the mind of a child at every critical moment.
As we grow out of the kindergarten, life challenges may hold us so tight and steal all the kindergarten values from us if not careful, but an active coach will give his or her seasonal guide that will bring us back on track. The kindergarten lessons enable us to live in love and be at our best at all times. When we do things that we are passionate about, we give it our all; not minding who is watching. When we lost a loved one, we cry passionately like a baby. When we have wonderful surprises, we get remarkably excited. All these experiences can be compared to the kindergarten days of openness and innocence. I can imagine the detailed manner in which a child prays with all innocence at meal time.
Patience and creativity are part of the virtues taught at the kindergarten. I have the story of a man, who was so much in a hurry, he ran and fell. He got injured and realized that he could have been a little more patient with himself. He was delayed than he would have been if he was careful and patient. Creatively, one could see an unpalatable situation in a positive light. Patience warned him, some people at that point will grab the lesson while some other people will wait for a harder experience to learn from. Patience is a virtue learned at the kindergarten. Children are taught to take their time in all exercises. What requires more patience than having fun by making a sand pile?
The kindergarten is a period when we know all unknowingly. Only if we know that we know all, there will be an availability of the internal motivation that guides to the sweet end of self actualization. The wisdom in the sand pile is making meaning out of what is supposedly meaningless, having a fresh breathe in creativity and appreciating God’s works. It is a subtle kindergarten experience!
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